The term whirling dervish evokes a sense of mystery and my interest in this phenomena goes back many years. I am not even sure anymore where I first heard the following parable about the dervishes which goes something like this:
A tourist and his guide were traveling across the desert. It was hot and arid and the trek was difficult. After crossing some distance, they began to see something on the horizon. A mirage, of course, they both exclaimed. What else could be in the middle of the desert? As they approached, however, they began to discern there were people, and as they neared the group they were able to see that these people were whirling. With so many people whirling the energy was totally chaotically. In the center of all of this tumultuous activity sat a woman who was calmly reading a book. The tourist was astounded! He turned to his guide and asked with perplexity, “How can she possibly concentrate on reading a book amidst all that frenzy?” The guide paused and then replied with an amused knowing smile, “She just lets the dervishes whirl, and eventually they all just fall over.”
I actually had the privilege to observe one during a trip to Egypt. Simply put, a whirling dervish is an individual’s attempt, by using a specific approach, to achieve spiritual transcendence. My group watched with fascination as the practitioner, decked out in layers of colorful flowing material, began to spin. Starting off slowly, the individual increased the speed of the whirl as well as alternating his position, frequently changing the center of balance. The effect was both amazing and beautiful. While we were mesmerized as onlookers, the effect on the practitioner was even more profound, as he lost himself to the practice in which he was engaged.
So while we were mesmerized as observers of the whirling dervishes during our trip, try to imagine sitting in the midst of many of these dervishes dancing about madly! Just like the tourist In the story surmised, it would be extremely difficult to read a book or do anything requiring concentration in the midst of such intense energy. I have used this story for many years as a reminder to clients to stay out of the fray. And the lesson is, all that appears so agitating eventually just goes away, just as the dervishes in the story drop from exhaustion.
This is not an easy task however. I am reminded of the droppings of the cottonwood tree, beautiful fluffs of billowy white cottony balls that float slowly in the breeze. If you are walking around them it is difficult to avoid having them attach themselves to you. Also, they are lovely and fascinating and in one way you want to touch them, to try to discern their mystery. The whirling dervishes in our lives attach in the same way. At first they may seem interesting, and we may barely notice that we are immersed in them.
Another less appealing but equally enticing analogy is the difficulty we have walking past a “trainwreck.” Often times horrible things hold a certain fascination for us and we can become victims to its pull to engage us. We crane our necks to view an accident that we pass, we move toward an altercation to hear what is going on, we watch engrossed at news reports of tragedies and calamities. We can’t take our eyes off of someone’s bad behavior, because while revolting, it is also somehow captivating!
It is similar when we are not minding our own business, allowing ourselves to be pulled into something that does not concern us and then causes us great distress. Or when we obsess over a problem, lose sleep, can’t eat, and just can’t let the bothersome thoughts go. These are whirling dervishes in our brains, numbing our ability to concentrate and clogging our thought processes and disturbing our daily routines.
Think about what was bothering you last year. Does the problem still exist? What about six months ago? What about last week? Do you still have the same concerns? As time goes on, everything changes, and the truth is, many problems just dissipate without any sort of intervention. But joining in with the fray will rarely help you to resolve a problem. Allowing the dervishes to cloud your thinking will only prevent you from finding a solution.
The true whirling dervish practitioner is in a state of transcendence instead of a state of anxiety, worry or chaos. He is not frightened by appearances, but instead is in a calm state of mind. He is not distracted by appearances, but instead is focused on inner peace. Can you learn to detach while you address the issues in your life? If you have problems for which there is no apparent solution, can you disengage, remembering that everything changes and it most likely will not look the same in 6 months, next week, or maybe even tomorrow? Can you stay out of problems that don’t need to concern you? Can you just let the dervishes whirl like the puffs from the cottonwood tree and avoid having them stick on you? Can you resist their pull and stay centered and immune to the chaos around you? I was just wondering…………………..